After your tips I discovered one of the usb port pins had a cold solder joint on my jack pcb.
Its no detected fine by my computers (mac and windows) which is quite awesome.
I do seem to be having one last issue though.
I can't get any activity at all anymore triggering wise. I though it was the cable, as I was using a 80 pin HD cable just assuming it wouldn't matter so I switch to a homemade 40 pin IDC cable (mind you I had trouble making it and ran out of 40 pin connectors and broke the backs off 2 of them) but I still get nothing.
Should it matter if I'm using an 80 wire (still 40 pin) IDE cable? I was getting triggers from it from about 50% of the jacks last night before I got my usb fully up and running using the 80 pin cable.... Oh so close